Thursday, May 28, 2009

2 Month Doctor's Visit...aka, Shot Day

Back when we were first in the hospital with Gray, I remember wishing that he could get the necessary shots then to protect him in the outside world. Then, once I found out that he wouldn't be receiving them for two whole months, I was eager for the two months to pass for his own protection. Well yesterday that day came, and Gray was as tough as a two month old could possibly be.

Our appointment was for 2:20 pm. Strangely, I kind of felt like I was betraying Gray a little by playing with him that morning and not being able to tell him what the day had in store for him. He was extra happy and totally oblivious that some random nurse would be giving him three shots in just a few short hours. I'm not one of those people that are frightened to death of needles, but I was unsure of Graylon's reaction. But flash-forward...as Gray took a bath that evening I made sure to tell him, "Son, you've over-achieved all day. Excellent job!"

We arrived to the doctor's office right at appointment time. They first needed to measure and weigh him. He tipped the scales at a very healthy 11 lbs. 10 oz. That's an increase of almost 4 and half pounds in two months. He then measured 23 inches in length, so he has grown 3 inches longer in the two months. Next, our doctor came in to answer any questions we might have and to go over a few tips for us for the next two months. We've been giving Gray a little tummy time thus far, but we are now going to be doing it up to five times a day for about five to ten minutes each time. Then, Dr. Aldridge said goodbye and in came the nurse.

He would be taking 3 shots by needle and one dose orally. The oral was taken first and Gray didn't seem to mind at all. Then the nurse prepared all three needles before any injection. What followed was a wild west style gun slingin' of vaccinations. She chained three shots very quickly while alternating thighs. One thigh got two shots, but once she was done only two Charlie Brown bandaids were needed. The cry that came out of our little man lasted less time than when he gets the dreaded lotion after a bath. The intensity, however, was a little more extreme. Mommy scooped him up, though, as fast as she could, and got him calmed down. He was a stud. He was soooooo over it in a minute or so. He actually said, "Hey lady, is that all you got?" I told him that taunting another person is never a good idea. On our way out the door we made our next appointment for the end of July where he'll get another check up and a few more shots.

Later on that night, Mommy had a booster club meeting, and I needed to get a few grocery items. That meant Gray got his first view of the inside of a grocery store. I put his car seat in the main part of the shopping cart since I was only getting a few things. He was wide eyed the entire time looking right at me with concern and wonder. He is quite the ladies man, as we were stopped twice by women who of course were marveled by "all that hair!" Later on we made it home safely, and he got some wonderful play time in with Mommy on camera. The footage is below. What an eventful day! Mommy and Daddy survived. Gray seemed to be completely unphased and proved to be rather unflappable. We are so thankful to him.

Extra side note: Today is the 4 year wedding anniversary for me and my girlfriend of 11 and half years, Heather. We are amazed at how fast time flies, but I am so thankful for her. I love my baby's mama so very much.


Look out paci, you have competition.


Playtime in the morning is the best way to wake up. I wanted to kiss him; he wanted to wrestle.


He used to just sit in his swing. He has now totally made friends with the lizards flying above his head. Look at that focus!


Graylon was smiling and shirtless just moments before his shots.


This is a little closer to "Go" time. Notice the game face now. He is such a gamer already! In the future he'll definitely sink a buzzer beater or hit a bottom of the ninth grand slam.

Monday, May 25, 2009

Our First Night Apart

Well it had to happen eventually. Heather and I spent our first night away from Gray on Saturday night. Heather and I were married Memorial Day Saturday four years ago. The date was May 28th, but we always use the holiday weekend to take a trip to celebrate. This weekend we had planned to enjoy an evening together in Chattanooga, Tennessee. We passed through Canton on the way up and let Granna and Pop keep our little boy while we celebrated "us." Aunt Caryn and Uncle J-Bird were also visiting in Canton, and they helped with the babysitting.

We left Canton about 1:00 pm on Saturday and headed to the Chattanoogan Hotel for a 3:00 couples massage. Once done there we went to the IMAX Theater by the Aquarium for a pretty cool 3D movie. Later that evening, we enjoyed an amazing dinner at Niko's Southside Grill. This restaurant was special to us because we went to the same place for my senior prom ten years ago. Between each and every event on our date Granna sent us text message pictures of our son. We were definitely enjoying each other's company, but a good chunk of our hearts were still in Canton. We had to swing into the gift shop at the Aquarium to pick up a stuffed plush sea turtle for Gray. We did miss him so much, and on Sunday driving home, all we could talk about was him.

We got back to Canton around noon on Sunday. Total time apart was around 23 hours, but it felt much longer. Heather and I had a wonderful time in a beautiful city. It's amazing that in such a short time (63 days to be exact) we felt lost without Gray. Life before Graylon is such a distant memory. Our anniversary was a blast though. Thanks Granna and Pop for babysitting and making our night on the town possible.

Later on Sunday more family members got their first look and meeting with Graylon. My Uncle Joe and Aunt Dianne along with my cousins Gabe, Sean, and Sarah came over from Woodstock to my parents place in Canton to visit and see little Gray. They brought Gray a Snoopy outfit, a puppet, and bath toys. They were so thoughtful; thanks a lot guys.

Sunday night we cooked out at the Lane's. Jon broke out his tailgating specialty, pork tenderloin, in May. It was great impromptu party. Gray shared the spotlight with Baby Henry, and he was glad to do so. The two are a heckuva pair. The Payne's also got to see Graylon again and were amazed at how much he'd grown. The party was a great capper to the weekend.

The weekend was long and a blast. We are so blessed to have such great family and friends around us to share these holiday weekends with. It was also awesome to feel our love for our son grow so much in just one special weekend. Absence truly does make the heart grow fonder. We love Gray so much, and this weekend magnified that feeling. What a great Memorial Day Weekend!


Heather and I missing Graylon in Chattanooga down by the river.


Sarah, Sean, Gabe and Gray posing and smiling perfectly for the camera.


The entire LaBarbera crew getting there hands on Graylon: Sarah, Joe, Dianne, Gabe, and Sean.

Thursday, May 21, 2009

Letter to Graylon


First of all, this is Gray's mama again. I must say before I get going with this, I stole this idea from our very good friend, Mary Beth (Lycett) Smart. She has a blog about her twins Weston and Julia, and she writes letters to each of her babies periodically to tell them how they are growing and changing. So here is my go at this...

Dear Graylon,

Happy 2 month birthday! I can't believe it has been 2 months already. We are so thankful that God gave us you. I have learned so much about you and there are so many things that I love about you. I love how you look at me. I feel like you are looking into my soul when you stare into my eyes. I love studying your face and all your little parts. I love how your hair stands up for an entire day after you have a bath and how you have two cowlicks at your hairline in the front. Your favorite part of a bath is getting your hair washed. I love your long eyelashes that you get from your daddy and a few extra long ones that you get from your Aunt Caryn. I love the dimple that you have in your chin. We call it a sugar bowl. Sometimes you fall asleep with your eyes open and you make funny faces. I love the "concerned" look that you give as you try and figure it all out. Your lips are shaped so beautifully with the little humps. You have hair everywhere...on your arms, on your back, on your ears, on your head, and even on your fingers. You have the cutest little booty I have ever seen. You are a quick fix most of the time. You cry when you are hungry, when you are tired, when you want to be held after you are all played out, and sometimes when you need your diaper changed. I love how there are sometimes that you can't get your paci in your mouth fast enough, and then sometimes that same paci makes you gag and make a face like it had been dipped in Nyquil. I love talking to you when you are laying on your back playing. You smile almost anytime you hear my voice (which melts my heart every time). I love how you follow me with your eyes when I walk by you in the bouncy chair or when you are laying on your play mat. I love how you kick your legs and wave your arms and how you are responding to me with your sweet coos. I feel like I am figuring you out and how you like things. I know that when you are tired you like to be held tight with one arm tucked under my arm and your head resting on my arm while I pat your booty and make a "shush" sound in your ear. This works every time. You like to be rolled up tight when you sleep. I love your grunting sounds when you are trying to get your arms out. When you finally get them out, you love to sleep with them above your head. You sometimes startle yourself when you move your arms and wake yourself up. We have started letting you sleep in your crib in your room during the day and you have graduated out of the bassinet to just sleeping in the pack n play in our room at night. Two nights ago, you actually slept for the longest stretch so far in your life. You ate at 7:30 p.m., got a bath, went to sleep in your crib, and didn't wake up until 4:15 a.m. We were so proud of you. It won't be long until we let your crib be your permanent sleeping place. You are eating about 3 oz. at every meal...sometimes a little more. You burps are loud and sound like your dad's sometimes. You are not afraid to pass gas in front of everyone and you don't seem to mind when you do it on your mommy and daddy. You have just found your left hand and you have started sucking on it. It is so cute. I love everything about you. I am so proud to call you my little baby and I can't wait to learn so much more about you.

Love,
Mommy

Wednesday, May 20, 2009

Sorry For the Delay Folks!

Evident by the delay in posts, it has taken some time to get back into our routine. Graylon adapted well to Florida life. He fussed a little on the way down during our overnight stay in Tifton, but once we got to the beach house he settled in. As the week went on, he broke out several new beach outfits and fit in perfectly with the group. Near the end of the trip Graylon got his first touch of beach sand. He made some wonderful pictures. Our trip was capped by going to the rehearsal dinner and wedding of Alissa and Brent Hudson. Their wedding was beautiful, and they really know how to throw good parties. It was good to see even more friends in such a fun setting. The trip was a blast and went by super fast as always. We made the trip home without any kind of stopover. Like a trooper though, Gray pushed through, and we are now resting comfortably at home. It's amazing to lay him on his changing table or other seats that he hasn't used in a week. He has truly grown so much in just the one week! Here are a few more pictures. Tomorrow is Gray's two month birthday. Mommy has already called dibs on tomorrow's post, so everyone make sure to tune in. Talk to you all soon.


World famous and never duplicated: The Concerned Face of Mr. Graylon Michael LaBarbera


Graylon was awake during his first sand touch. The sun was just very bright that day.


He wasn't THAT thrilled with his first trip in the pool. I'm sure it's just a phase.


Jon hogging his son's shade. All we had to do was dare Jon to do this. He's so gullible.


Ms. Ashley gettin' a little Gray love.


Averie and Kelly teaming up to feed little Gray.


Ashley got matching outfits for the kids. Gray, Henry, and Averie take postcard perfect pictures don't' they?


The Hudson's arriving at their reception. Alissa is an avid blog follower. Congratulations you two.


If this picture is any kind of indication, I'd say Graylon enjoyed his first trip to the beach.

Monday, May 11, 2009

Attention!...Graylon Has Left the State Border


We've made it to St. George Island! None of our travel party have ever been here before, and most of us have already ranked it higher than Destin. It's very secluded, and our location is the best we've ever had in six years of our summer trips down here. We are 9 adults deep with 3 children until tomorrow night when Aunt Caryn and Uncle J arrive. Right now we've got Granna and Pop...Uncle Rick, Aunt Kelly, and Averie Raye...Jon, Ashley, and Henry...Grandma Sharon...and Heather, Gray and I. We're livin' the sweet life, and are praying for the slowest week of all time. Here are a few pictures we've taken so far. I'll holler back soon, but we ARE on vacation, and I'd rather be playing Monopoly at the moment.


Gray and Grandma Sharon at a pit stop on our way to the beach!


"Dad, I love the beach!"


Averie Raye and Graylon just chillllllllllin'.


Ashley on the blog! Ashley on the blog! Awww-some! Look at shiek Henry.


Graylon has always been our little waterbug. Ain't he adorable?


Granna with her little grandbaby. Gray had called her in advance to make sure they'd match.

Friday, May 8, 2009

Sorry...Technical Difficulties


On Monday, our camera decided not to work any more. Target is giving us a refund, but in the mean time we have not been able to capture much of Graylon besides what our camera phones get. So just enjoy the magical words I can type, and let me bring everyone up to speed.

Wednesday we welcomed yet another visitor. Our friend Shannon stopped by to see Gray. Once she got her hands on him, she refused to give him up. Packers and Bears fan united as they became good friends from the start. I captured their picture on my camera phone, but as of press time, I was unable to get it loaded on the blog. There will be more pictures of the two of them in the future. I'll post it then.

Today, we took Graylon out with us to run a few errands and to see some more friends. We took him by my former place of employment, Devore and Johnson, to give several friends their first look at Gray. They all commented on his hair of course, and he slept through the entire thing. After a bank and Target stop, we went by Stegeman Coliseum to visit with women's basketball. Some of them had seen him before, but others had not. It was Ms. Ann Smith's birthday, so she loved seeing Baby Gray as a present. Coach Landers snagged him as soon as we arrived and hogged him from most everyone else. Coach gave Gray his first pair of Jordan's. Gray wore them home. Several gifts had been left for us since we had last visited, and we were very thankful for all of them.

We are now home, and it is time to pack up for our trip to St. George Island, Florida! I love our new Honda Accord, but I'm thinking it might have to turn into a Honda 12-Passenger-Van for us to fit all of Gray's stuff in it. I'm gonna have to get real crafty. Anyway, we are super excited to take Gray to the beach for a week. We are supposed to have internet access down there, so I'll try and post to the blog from down there. I'll have to put several pictures of Ashley Lane and Gray since I'm in her dog house for not having done so thus far. Maybe one post can be dedicated just to the two of them. We'll see. Until then, take care, and I'll post again from the Sunshine State.

Tuesday, May 5, 2009

Dalton Wrap-up

Sorry for no Day 3, 4, or 5 from Dalton. We had technical difficulties at Grandma Sharon's. So I'll just catch you all up in a fast forwarded version of the weekend.

Saturday, Aunt Caryn had a bridal shower in Dalton. Several out of town family members including my Grandma, my aunt Barb, my cousin Abby, and her daughter Kyleigh who was born just two days after Gray. After the shower, everyone gathered at Grandma Sharon's for an evening of fellowship, food, and Bulls game. We snapped lots of pictures, and I think Graylon forgot what it felt like to not be held. He slept really hard at night, so I can't complain. Speaking of sleeping hard...A very special to thank you to Grandma Sharon for insisting on keeping Graylon during the night so Mommy and Daddy could sleep. She treated us (and herself I do believe) both Saturday and Sunday night. Thank you Grandma Sharon.

Sunday, our friend Crystal Parker and her son Wade came over to visit. Wade is has such an awesome personality and is one the cutest kids you'll ever see. The rest of Sunday was just a nice relaxing afternoon of doing nothing. It was nice to give everyone some long, overdue Gray-time. Showing him off is one of our favorite things to do.

We really had a great extended weekend in Dalton. Thank you to everyone for coming out and seeing our son. He loved meeting all of you and hasn't shut up about it since we left.

Again I'll let the pictures from the weekend do the rest of the talking. There is also a video of Heather getting Graylon to smile back on Friday morning.


Grandma Sharon smelling of her babies. She'd eat 'em if she could.


Gran Gran holding her newest great-grandchildren. I can see the pride in her smile.


Ms. Jody getting to know little Graylon.


Baby Swap! I'm holding little Kyleigh, and Abby has got little Gray. Don't forget your paci!


Crystal and Wade smiling with Gray.

Friday, May 1, 2009

Dalton Trip...Part 2(Pictures, Pictures, and More Pictures)

Day number two in D-town was one filled with pictures, family fun, and a few more pictures. We took a trip to the fabulous Walnut Square Mall to get some professional pics of little Graylon. He had a couple of different outfits and he took the standard naked-as-a-jaybird pose. We made it back to Meemaw and Pop Pop's to welcome in more family and pose for MORE pictures. All in all, the visitors have included the following: Uncle Steve Byers, Cousin Melinda Byers, Aunt Lacey, Pop Pop, Meemaw, Aunt Brenda, Grandma Ophia, Deb Stanley, Nanny Christine, Uncle Mike and Aunt Stacey, and Uncle Brandon, Auntie H, and cousin Jocey Lynn....whew! I'll let all the pictures speak for the rest of this post. Another action packed day in store for tomorrow. I'll catch y'all later.


Look at Graylon...he already knows to give Uncle Steve the YOU-ARE-CRAZY look.


Grandma Ophia and Aunt Brenda left Graylon beaming with pride.


Little Gray melted in Deb's arms...Or was it the other way around? Deb looks like she might have been melted by Graylon.


Aunt Lacey met Graylon for the first time. I think I saw her shed a tear.


Meemaw found her a new bestest buddy in the whole wide world.


Pop Pop showing little Gray how to chug-a-lug.


Aunt Stacey and Uncle Michael posing with Graylon. Yep, Michael always smiles like that.


Heather Lynn and Jocey get their first look at Graylon. But see, I wasn't lying about Uncle Michael's smile.


The Clarkesville Crew holding Gray. Brandon was already teaching him how to be meaner than a striped snake.


Ain't nothin' finer than a little of Jocey's sugar!